We've had this problem in the UK for decades as well. Even third world connections generally have faster speeds than us. I was extremely lucky and some indie company came along and has been supplying proper fibre broadband at last and I immediately switched and didn't look back.

Now the broadband companies are slowly playing catch up which is hilarious, they've been ripping this country off for years. The worse one by far is Virgin Media, they're about as bad as the US equivalent of Comcast. They frequently oversell their broadband and throttle their speeds causing all kinds of problems, I hate virgin media with a passion.

I'm so fucking glad I don't have to deal with that shit anymore. Never ever support the broadband companies if you can pick a different option which is one of the beautiful things about Starlink.