exactly we need to go with what works over perceived elegance see
@npub16y598... s original ideas for nostr
i see the lists taking a wiki/opensource path with people forking them or curating controlling them
i have had it for a long time idea if we could just have a group we agree with 'moderate' how we like then social media might work better
for me personally that means only hiding spam really, i have no issue with 'hate speech' or other woke shit