Ok, so 16767 is profile style and 16769 is for the tabs. And againt, relay.ditto.pub is keeping various copies, while my relays keep only one copy. I get the feeling the non-logged in users get the copy from my relay. While logged in users get the copies from the "app relays" list. (my profile show the oldest copy when i'm logged in) I tried disable the "app relays" but that broke everything: the client couldn't even find my name...

Hope this helps! Love everything i'm seeing so far!