Honestly this relay is my last ditch effort to use NOSTR.
I'm fucking done with this thing.
All my follows are missing.
I get no posts i.e. On Amethyst (which has the relays since birth) suddenly...
As others have said and suggested, your contact list was nuked. A bad client did a bad thing. Many tools exist to fix this as others ahev posted. Ditto can attempt to fix this too. Go to your profile tab and tap the 3 dot menu. It's annoying, but you can get it all restored. It just takes some effort. Sorry this happened.
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