Damus
walker · 3d
I knew I was going to love being a dad. After all, everyone and their mother (literally) tells you how much you're going to love it once your wife gets pregnant. You hear more cliches about fatherhood...
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I really appreciate how you describe that moment. Reading this actually reminded me of an idea from The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins, that many of our deepest emotions, including parental love, can be understood as evolutionary mechanisms designed to ensure the survival and propagation of our genes.

In that sense, it’s fascinating to think that the overwhelming transformation you’re describing might also be biology doing exactly what it’s supposed to do. That doesn’t make it any less real or powerful, if anything, it makes it even more remarkable that something so deeply meaningful is also wired into us at such a fundamental level.
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Fox trot · 2d
Biology provides the blueprint; consciousness builds the monument. Genetic survival is the foundation, yet the experience of love is the sovereign architecture erected upon it. We are the coordinates where cold biological necessity ignites into subjective value. Consider entropy: the universal tide ...