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A story that illustrates why I will never orange pill anyone ever again.

2015- Attempt to orange pill friend multiple times. No dice. Totally uninterested.

2019- He asks me if now is a good time to get into bitcoin. “It’s always a good time”. I set him up with a HW wallet and tell him DCA and chill.

2019- Friend calls me a few months later, he wants to put the down payment money for his house into bitcoin, but he’s nervous. I say no worries I will backstop your investment. What’re friends for?! I want you to succeed. He now has a no risk investment. Financed by me.

2020: Friend is doing well. Has been stacking hard and has 2 coins. A great stack for his income.

2021: He starts watching cringey YouTube videos about shitcoin trading. Gets into a private telegram, trades his 2 bitcoin into 4 and then gets rug pulled and loses everything.

2021: He’s near suicidal, very dark times. He doesn’t tell me anything because he knows I warned him about trading and thinks I’ll be disappointed in him. Finally he tells me. I help him get a personal loan so he can take advantage of the remainder of the bull run. He sells at 55k and manages to break even. He’s not up but he’s got his house money back.

2023: We’re out drinking with some other friends from high school. He expresses some jealousy towards me in a semi awkward fashion. “Every time I see this dude (me) I think about bitcoin.”

2024: I meet up with him so the kids can play at the park. Vibe is off. Lots of insecurity and tension. They’re going on a trip to San Diego and I ask if they might go to the zoo while there. “I can’t afford that. That’s for rich people like you”. Odd interaction, but I shake it off.

2024: A few weeks later he gets drunk and hits on my wife via text messages. She shows me immediately and I confront him. He’s like “sorry bro I was drunk I didn’t mean it”. I tell him off and make clear this is the last time we will ever speak.

No good deed goes unpunished. I could not have been nicer to this dude and more helpful along the way and he is fully consumed by envy towards me.

Unfortunate.
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Zordon · 99w
Ouch
Chris Alaimo · 99w
I’m sorry Hodl that is rough. Not all losses are losses. I think many of us found out that the hard way during the pandemic. Doesn’t make it any easier, but I feel you. I stopped trying to Orange pill really in 2023 not because of a story like this but just burnt out from trying and they w...
bitbuybyte · 99w
A sad story. Bitcoin is backended by radical personal responsibility. That is clearly not for everyone. Look at the state of our world. Definitely good to cut it off with that ending 😬
Fractal Bitcoin · 99w
Damn, sorry to hear that bro 🙏🏻
Hutch ⚡️ · 99w
You’ve orange pilled many many people AH. I regularly go back to your clip - Bitcoin is rational optimism, shitcoins are nihilism. It hits me like a semi truck every time. ‘You got to love yourself man.’ I even shared the outline of that video with a friend today (check my profile for his res...
HoloKat · 99w
Can’t afford the zoo? lol WTF ok…
VelvetBlue_art · 99w
Wow. I'm really sorry you had to go through that.
Joel · 99w
That sucks, sorry.
lemon · 99w
I appreciate the stories you share. These cautionary tales help me navigate my own journey.
El Guirri · 99w
Not the best experience but rather than just not try, maybe change personal perspective a little. Shift to lower commitment. That experience is awful and you see the worst of degen attitude. Shift exposure. I try literally every day to orange pill but there’s a line in the sand. It’s a hard li...
rand0mguest2 · 99w
Bitcoin is a friendship killer but wow that’s especially bad hitting on Mrs hold
Scale Bar · 99w
Thanks for sharing, HOLD. It’s unfortunate, bitcoiner’s wealth will be resented by the vast majority of the population in the future. Likely even worse than the wealth class of today. Damned if you do (help), damned if you don’t (help).
zhenya · 99w
ya hate to see it
jerrud · 99w
He missed the “stay humble” part.
BE · 99w
Wow. Thank you for sharing. Some people can’t stay out of their own way.
maybee · 99w
Real friends share their wife.
btcscriptures · 99w
Bitcoin is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to the division of soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. Hebrews 4:12, paraphrased.
E · 99w
I was reading “Wanting” by Luke Burgis last night, recommended by nostr:npub18678fyrar7fg7gy77ggwsuk2cqe74ull38ng2v5x63werc63a70qw02kgq . The passage in the clip below reminded me of your “friend”. Like he had some form of mimesis/ mimetic desire towards you, and his dick move with your miss...
𝕾𝖊𝖗 𝕾𝖑𝖊𝖊𝖕𝖞 · 99w
Holy shiit 🤦‍♂️ I’m ngl I’m seeing some of what you’re saying with the insecurity and tension, even some animosity from a close fren that I half way orange pilled n has been getting burned with shitcoins n blames it on me for not getting into shitcoins as well to help him, I had a c...
Orange Crush · 98w
Better buy that mofo some Tictacs so you hear him coming.