maybe nostr apps that support DMs should mention that DMs are a mess and that your recipient might never even see it;
maybe when you send one it should show you something like this to set expectatio...
Truth. I've DMed someone before and then after a few days I say dammit lemme send them a legacy NIP-04 DM as well and I then get a response. I default to NIP-17. DMs are very broken. I am hopeful that we can encourage clients to migrate to NIP-104 when it's complete.
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