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Lady Crumb
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What do you think about marriage ultimatums? I can’t help feeling a bit sad when I hear a couple got engaged that way… Am I the only one who feels that way?

Lately, I’ve seen quite a few women I know give their boyfriends an ultimatum lately and then received the ring, so technically, it “worked”.

Still, I can’t help but wonder if marriage ultimatums might lead to insecurities later on, on both sides.

Or maybe I’m just being judgmental about others people’s decisions🤭 But when it happens to people I care about, I can’t help but worry.
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Lady Crumb · 4w
Personally, I prefered to wait until Mr Crumb felt ready. I wanted to be sure that he really wanted to marry me, not that he felt pushed into it.
Zen<3lofi · 4w
this is a pretty serious topic.
pepi · 4w
I’d say it is a big red flag 🚩 … Do you really want to marry someone who is already threathening to leave you?