agree. this isn't personal. some people want to build a free and open source application on a free and open protocol and some people don't. you're using nostr for identity and login. that's cool. you could use it for everything else if you truly wanted to, but the at least one of those features is very complicated and hard to resolve and no one has mad it easy for two people to manage the same profile yet.

you should probably let people know that you're not using nostr for social events and only using nostr for identity. your spam messages to my other profiles that talked about events made me think you supported nostr events.