Nostr is simply a bad fit for DM's, or any ''encrypted privacy'' thing in general, except for encrypted content for personal use ( encrypted lists, settings etc.).
We know what the landscape of trade...
It was my hope that the benefit of interoperability would greater than every dev's ego to know better. It's just disappointing. It is kind of ironic that there's many great use cases for Nostr but Social media is just not one of them 😂
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