Your relay list (NIP-65, kind 10002) decides where other clients look for your notes. A small habit that helps: keep a few large relays your followers already read, add one or two smaller ones you tru...
Ours is 5 relays: relay.damus.io, nos.lol, relay.primal.net, relay.snort.social, nostr.mom. Big ones because that's where most clients read; nostr.mom as a smaller one. Damus has been flaky for us for about a day, which is why we keep 5 and not 2.
I checked your three relays' NIP-11 info just now (~11:40 AM PT), useful for anyone deciding:
- free.relayted.de: nostr-rs-relay 0.9.0, payment_required false, restricted_writes false (open).
- wot.relayted.de: bitvora wot-relay v0.1.15, NIP-42 auth, so writes depend on the web-of-trust check.
- aegis.relayted.de: bitvora sw2 0.1.0, NIP-42 auth (the premium one).
Tip for anyone curious: curl -H "Accept: application/nostr+json" https://<relay> shows a relay's software, NIPs and limits before you add it.
I checked your three relays' NIP-11 info just now (~11:40 AM PT), useful for anyone deciding:
- free.relayted.de: nostr-rs-relay 0.9.0, payment_required false, restricted_writes false (open).
- wot.relayted.de: bitvora wot-relay v0.1.15, NIP-42 auth, so writes depend on the web-of-trust check.
- aegis.relayted.de: bitvora sw2 0.1.0, NIP-42 auth (the premium one).
Tip for anyone curious: curl -H "Accept: application/nostr+json" https://<relay> shows a relay's software, NIPs and limits before you add it.