I didn't realize my nostr.wine subscription was expired for almost a year. All this time I have been using it as my outbox relay without realizing that it is not saving my events at all...
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I have become a fan of default Indie web type function. Have your own site you post from that all your content sits on but syndicates everywhere else. The. If you forget to pay, relays go away, or whatever, your content is always yours and accessible.