If I only have a link via the bitsatrelay satellite then it must be able to know I'm communicating with it directly, or if not, having an @ tag in the message to indicate that re-relaying it is requested.
It's cool tech but having over half my notifications be unrequested bitsatrelay events is ott.
It's cool tech but having over half my notifications be unrequested bitsatrelay events is ott.