Contra · 4d Men, when things get tense in your marriage, and they will, think of yourself as the thermostat in the room. Not the thermometer. A thermometer just reflects the temperature. Whatever's happening, i... TBH @TBH 1786813270 also - the angrier you get, the more likely you are too blame. Not always true, but a good reality check to assess dispassionately. 2❤️1