if people don't run their own relay, we didn't changed anything on internet.

check out alienos and run your own relay, whitelist your friends, and connect to it using jumble by @Cody:

https://github.com/dezh-tech/alienos

of course, there is a lot more options to run personal relay, soon ill make a document a liat of relays and explain their pros and cons and features. so you can pick one and run your own relay. just run a relay!!! 🫡