--> "but still one of the coins will die so it doesn't make much sense to offer the choice"
How does it die?
It wont be obvious which one of the chains is *winning* without assigning real work/valu...
Also, in the unlikely event of a contentious softfork leading to a split, what randos post on NOSTR or X, definitely won't matter - including you and me, and probably even ODELL