That’s hookup culture. You can date if you want to but yeah the pool is smaller. Also if you’re in my age range there’s the omg my biological clock has gone off and I have decide if I can marry and have children with you on the first date panic mode.

Is it really that bad? Are you meeting people online or in real life?

I feel you. I put my best foot forward and get put on blast anyway because people have learned to only assume the worst out of others, it's kinda funny

I've found this to be the case when I use the apps, but not when I meet people organically