Hey this post stuck in my head for some reason. I don't have a job for you, but do have a few passages from a book that were super useful to me about building the life I want and money flow.
I highly recommend pondering and writing out all of the things, ways of being, and lifestyle that you want. Putting words to paper is powerful, and putting positive emotion behind that process is even more powerful

Also keeping a healthly, free flowing relationship with money. I've been totally broke/homeless, and know its difficult sometimes but trusting God to provide for our needs is a glorious thing in a way..
Zapping on nostr is a good practice microcosm of that. Whenever my wallet is getting low from zapping too much, a random big one always seems to come in lol

Apologies if this comes off as preachy, just trying to be of service.
Blessings to you and your family