I'm sure you are very sorry...

When you are so cinfident. Ask your date: "Hey babe, when you would message me in private, that you feel very unconfortable with some friend or someone of my family. Is it fair, when I reveal this message to all my friends and family without asking you for permission?"

You are not helping Nostr this way, people will percetive it as dangerous and unfair, they will tell friends to avoid it, and they will simply stay on Facebook/Instagram/X/whatever. It's better to support Nostr ethos respecting user's privacy, explaining how things work, and possibly sharing a litt...

That's fine. Not redacting his name is not. It's unprofessional and irresponsible. You're worse than either The Gribder or fuckstr. You exacerbated the situation in a way that is just plain wrong. Your unrepentant attitude speaks volumes.

Proof read?