Ditto Relay lets you AUTH as either the sender or receiver to view. But to delete you have to be the receiver. This is the biggest source of dissonance in the theory, I think. But it's not too bad. It...
Ah, ok so if the relay is modified to accept auth from sender + receiver, then I wouldn't need a toggle switch I think.. Cool. Makes sense. Just clarifying, since I'm prob one of the only ones left running NIP17 relays, other than pyramid I think also does it, and we had been pushing to try to get it into strfry but it never really happened.
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