That's why I pulled over the side to show I had 300+ relay connections and still no 🎲
Its your Search relays. Nostr.band went away and which is included in the defaults.
These ones seem to work:
wss://nostr.wine
wss://relay.noswhere.com
wss://relay.ditto.pub
wss://antiprimal.net
wss://search.nos.today
These ones seem to work:
wss://nostr.wine
wss://relay.noswhere.com
wss://relay.ditto.pub
wss://antiprimal.net
wss://search.nos.today