This has been boiling in the background for quite some time, and I'm glad people are speaking up publicly. Sanford accords Bell a great deal of grace.
However, I'm not sure the "good" done by this pa...
@nprofile1q... I have long come to the conclusion that the "help" provided by abusive or otherwise horrible people isn't worth it in the long run. Tolerating that crap or looking away because it's not focused on you is just a bad idea.