Btw, this is not the norm if you don't accept it. It's what mempool dot space wants you to see and you're seeing it because their node is set up this way. Check the mempool app on your own node and compare.
Fees on mempool dot space Node:

Fees on my Core 29.2 Node:
Fees on my Knots Node:

Fees on mempool dot space Node:

Fees on my Core 29.2 Node:
Fees on my Knots Node:

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