That automatically happens when you set that standard and live it. Females of any hominid species want what they cannot have. They can sense it. It's like going around with obvious signs of being married, but more-so living it regardless of external signs.

Aside from that, their weak chaotic nature tries to tear you apart from Christ-consciousness. Woa is the male who panders to it. I've had friends that did, and their domestic lives were a wreck; their wife neurotic, or uninterested in them. They both suffered from stunted internal development, despite their intelligence, drive or generosity.