Monero has a very big lag, can be 20 minutes or longer

Say u used a non Kyc like trade ogre… imagine all of a sudden 10 Bitcoin landing at that exchange…. Flag

Swap for monero…. Lags, address seen in Trade Ogre exchange, then the transfer to monero logged, then after 30 minutes then the monero disappears??

At no point in history has this ever succeeded