It turns out that things are what they are, not what people want them to be. Shocker
What can be, unburdened by what has been. Their discussion on the merits of Nostr is also pretty banger! https://primal.net/e/note1myawuxvc2lmwr6aqvntuz6uhxwszdfgd804wt3u9ewj3chdwuk4sl6hpwe