@tanel it was a misunderstanding on my part , I read the intent "come join me as my guest so went empty handed. Didn't buy anything, we had a nice chat and looked around the garden together.
I'll said I'd gob back and help clean up the weeds , I'll also pick up all of the litter tossed over the walls and fences when I can, littering really grinds my gears. We will have to be okay without for now.