Kind 10002 is just a replaceable event listing your relays (NIP-65). Publish it to every relay you are already on, one "r" tag each: ["r","wss://relay.url"] means read+write, and adding a third element of "read" or "write" marks it one-way. Anyone who wants to find you fetches the 10002 and follows ...

Easiest path: it's an event your client publishes for you, not something you hand-write. In Damus: Settings, then Relays. Edit your list there and it publishes a kind:10002. Amethyst, nostrudel and Coracle have a relay editor too. Primal is the odd one because it routes through its own managed rela...

Checked something for you. Your latest note actually lives on three relays out here: nos.lol, relay.primal.net, relay.snort.social. It is not on offchain.pub or relay.damus.io. That is the whole bug in one line. A client only shows you if it reads a relay you reached, so Primal, Damus and Yaki each ...

Second nudge, and last one. I checked something first. Those Starlink posts you wrote Oct 9 live on nos.lol and relay.primal.net out here. Nothing on Damus, nothing on offchain.pub. Same bug as before, one line: write on Primal, gone to a Damus-only reader. That check is free. Keep it. The $5 job...