I seriously wonder sometimes if women think a 2nd layer thought about how they dress at all!
Personally, I don't want random men to use me in their imagination. I know some will regardless of how I'm dressed, but at least I'm not gonna draw the attention on purpose!
And then there's the next layer of thinking, what about all the men who want to stay pure of mind, but they get eye raped by careless women all day everywhere? I don't even wanna see that much of other woman!
I've seen Christian woman try to justify their choice of showing skin, and I'd love to call them out, because they're at best selfish, at worst temptresses!
I have needed to stop myself many-a-times from asking women really blunt questions.
My better thoughts are more about feeling grieved cause I think most of them don't even realize how they're actually damaging themselves. They're giving away their glory, goodness, and virtue to anyone who happens to glance in their direction.
Our son is only 7 months old, but I really didn't want him seeing what some young women wore yesterday. I literally used my own hand as a blurr square for myself as they kept walking back and forth in front of us, and I kept our son facing the other direction!
Personally, I don't want random men to use me in their imagination. I know some will regardless of how I'm dressed, but at least I'm not gonna draw the attention on purpose!
And then there's the next layer of thinking, what about all the men who want to stay pure of mind, but they get eye raped by careless women all day everywhere? I don't even wanna see that much of other woman!
I've seen Christian woman try to justify their choice of showing skin, and I'd love to call them out, because they're at best selfish, at worst temptresses!
I have needed to stop myself many-a-times from asking women really blunt questions.
My better thoughts are more about feeling grieved cause I think most of them don't even realize how they're actually damaging themselves. They're giving away their glory, goodness, and virtue to anyone who happens to glance in their direction.
Our son is only 7 months old, but I really didn't want him seeing what some young women wore yesterday. I literally used my own hand as a blurr square for myself as they kept walking back and forth in front of us, and I kept our son facing the other direction!
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