@nprofile1q... @nprofile1q... Oh my, that is a challenge. Take care of yourself in those plans too!
Currently entering the stage of parents moving between snowbird location and MN and that NOT really being a good idea anymore. But winters here are NOT on their agenda, and summers there are NOT on the agenda so just when you think the care situation is figured out, it's time to go back to the OTHER place.
There may be a force-multiplier in one or the other of their health issues, but it's hella-difficult to convince either that everything is not really “fine”.