This is a good time to think about your last will and testament. Think about what you want, and put it in writing so that everyone knows.

When my grandmother died, there were discussions about what she "wanted". And they all ended when we looked at what the will said.

The will isn't for you - it's for your family. Be as specific as possible so that arguments are avoided. Include descriptions, timelines, preferred vendors. Explain your choice if folks might think it unfair.