Nice for them that they didn't live under the same constant disapproval we did, but it means they tasted a lot more of the "rewards" of conformity & participating "correctly" in certain social systems...
If you mainly taste the punishment without the rewards, you're going to resent that system & not want to participate.
If you do manage to perform your social role "correctly", however, then you're hooked. That's the bait AND the cage.
If you do manage to perform your social role "correctly", however, then you're hooked. That's the bait AND the cage.
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