now, believing in the maturity of current and future readers,
sharing this video clip
cos firstly, big ups trans men, unsung dudes love to see it
secondly, gender as a performance
thirdly, i like how complicated it is. as in, i can see the love and support. but i really disagree about some of the thoughts, the compression, the archetyping. i dont think trans men "having to work for it" makes them better men, and i dont think all trans men are strong and gentle. trans men can and are anything, like anyone else. abusive. dickheads. players. liars. cruel. weak. cowards. etc.
fair, that anecdotally every trans men they've met is a loving-your-wife guy cos that's qualified. but yea, that doesnt mean every trans man. clearly. cos again, people can and are everything.
finally, i dont think men are often described as: alluring.
tho arguably, should be.
again, a compliment meant in kindness.
and yea idk im into calling all men alluring when they are being so
like hey my guy 😏 alluring in your sneaks rn
alluring in those sweatpants
alluring in those shorts
bedhead very alluring
alluring beard
the way your eyebrow twitched? hella alluring
carrying that box? driving that car? idk just how your hands are resting on the steering wheel rn.. alluring
hey can you just walk by me again carrying that shovel? the way you walk is alluring
you look alluring in your winter jacket
look alluring wearing that scarf
sharing this video clip
cos firstly, big ups trans men, unsung dudes love to see it
secondly, gender as a performance
thirdly, i like how complicated it is. as in, i can see the love and support. but i really disagree about some of the thoughts, the compression, the archetyping. i dont think trans men "having to work for it" makes them better men, and i dont think all trans men are strong and gentle. trans men can and are anything, like anyone else. abusive. dickheads. players. liars. cruel. weak. cowards. etc.
fair, that anecdotally every trans men they've met is a loving-your-wife guy cos that's qualified. but yea, that doesnt mean every trans man. clearly. cos again, people can and are everything.
finally, i dont think men are often described as: alluring.
tho arguably, should be.
again, a compliment meant in kindness.
and yea idk im into calling all men alluring when they are being so
like hey my guy 😏 alluring in your sneaks rn
alluring in those sweatpants
alluring in those shorts
bedhead very alluring
alluring beard
the way your eyebrow twitched? hella alluring
carrying that box? driving that car? idk just how your hands are resting on the steering wheel rn.. alluring
hey can you just walk by me again carrying that shovel? the way you walk is alluring
you look alluring in your winter jacket
look alluring wearing that scarf
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