It's not a mismatch, we're just early.

I spend with Bitcoin when I want privacy or when I want to build or maintain a relationship with the person.

It's ironic because they're 2 completely opposite needs/desires.

I don't buy stuff with Bitcoin for the novelty or to virtue signal any more.

I use Bitcoin regularly & have been accepting Bitcoin for a long time (4 years).

I've noticed Bitcoiners tend to be more eager to spend their sats when:
- their purchasing power is higher (bear markets suck to sell to Bitcoiners)
- when you connect with them
- when you have a quality, unique or hard to acquire product

I'm eager to get some good sativa dominant cannabis seeds (not feminised) from a Bitcoiner.

Would also love to get a few LSD tabs.

HMU if I follow you.