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A story that illustrates why I will never orange pill anyone ever again.

2015- Attempt to orange pill friend multiple times. No dice. Totally uninterested.

2019- He asks me if now is a good time to get into bitcoin. “It’s always a good time”. I set him up with a HW wallet and tell him DCA and chill.

2019- Friend calls me a few months later, he wants to put the down payment money for his house into bitcoin, but he’s nervous. I say no worries I will backstop your investment. What’re friends for?! I want you to succeed. He now has a no risk investment. Financed by me.

2020: Friend is doing well. Has been stacking hard and has 2 coins. A great stack for his income.

2021: He starts watching cringey YouTube videos about shitcoin trading. Gets into a private telegram, trades his 2 bitcoin into 4 and then gets rug pulled and loses everything.

2021: He’s near suicidal, very dark times. He doesn’t tell me anything because he knows I warned him about trading and thinks I’ll be disappointed in him. Finally he tells me. I help him get a personal loan so he can take advantage of the remainder of the bull run. He sells at 55k and manages to break even. He’s not up but he’s got his house money back.

2023: We’re out drinking with some other friends from high school. He expresses some jealousy towards me in a semi awkward fashion. “Every time I see this dude (me) I think about bitcoin.”

2024: I meet up with him so the kids can play at the park. Vibe is off. Lots of insecurity and tension. They’re going on a trip to San Diego and I ask if they might go to the zoo while there. “I can’t afford that. That’s for rich people like you”. Odd interaction, but I shake it off.

2024: A few weeks later he gets drunk and hits on my wife via text messages. She shows me immediately and I confront him. He’s like “sorry bro I was drunk I didn’t mean it”. I tell him off and make clear this is the last time we will ever speak.

No good deed goes unpunished. I could not have been nicer to this dude and more helpful along the way and he is fully consumed by envy towards me.

Unfortunate.
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Seodan · 105w
Thanks, not uncommon unfortunately, I can relate. In this regard orange-pilling is similar to introducing someone to the spiritual journey. In my experience, once ready, your message will spark curiosity without big resistances and they'll continue by themselves and only get back to you for follow-...
Chris · 105w
Sounds like your former friend is a shitbag. I don’t think BTC had anything to do with it
Tobo⚡ · 105w
I am sorry to hear that story of yours. I know you know that already, but I will tell you anyways: It’s not your fault.
DRE · 105w
Maybe I should be grateful I was never able to orange pill any of my friends 😅
The Bitcoin Street Journal · 105w
This was not a friend.
ShiShi21m · 105w
This is why I only attempt to paint my transactions orange. For the past year my cheese guy stacks my purchases in 100% BTC. He even moved all his PayPal monies to strike & now wants to self custody.
KaMeek Lucas Taitt · 105w
Wow, this was all I needed to read. So sorry to hear. I will now stay silent and stack sats.
SBW · 105w
Consider yourself lucky he did not rob you, also think about your security more since the word is out and the more price goes up the sweeter target you are.
Ronin · 105w
Bitcoin is an IQ test. I also stopped orange pilling.
btcscriptures · 105w
Bitcoin is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to the division of soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart. Hebrews 4:12, paraphrased.
Nunya Bidness · 105w
You are a saint, dude. And, yeah, this is very unfortunate. Not only for him but for you as well. I am so sorry to hear this but I'm VERY glad that you shared the story. Maybe it'll help someone that needs to hear it before they too fall down the wrong rabbit hole.
Simon (2.₿y.2) Kofah · 105w
Not to be that guy that whips out the Bible, but this parallels the Cain/Abel or Jacob/Essau dynamic... failure to make the proper sacrifices in life is the road to bitterness and envy.
Justin Nakamoto · 105w
I wonder if you had not backstopped the investment, he would not have invested so readily; he may have waited, learned more, and eventually patiently HODLed and might even still be here today.
asdfg · 105w
I'm must be the worst Bitcoiner ever, never orange pilled anyone and not interested. Money is very delicated and I live in a 3rd world country and not interested on having my Bitcoin stolen.
CitizenPleb · 105w
The true character of a man is always shown clearest during times of adversity.
Bing · 105w
The people I’ve attempted to orange pill have been nothing but trouble. These days I DCA, HODL and STFU about Bitcoin. Unless I’m posting on Nostr that is… 😀
btcschellingpt · 105w
IMO don’t ever regret prior deeds done with a full heart and a clear helpful intent 🤝 Those choices and behaviour are on him, not on you, and that behaviour from him is just avoidance of him taking responsibility for his actions - not excusing it in any way Don’t let this (shitty) episode s...
Jose Sammut · 105w
10 years, and never empowered himself to understand. What a shame.
Jose Sammut · 105w
I just make sure people know I will always be there to guide and help, and make sure they stay aware of Bitcoin from time to time.
MCBitcoin · 105w
Selfishly, I now only encourage my elderly father to stack Bitcoin.
Ivan · 105w
Hitting on the wife via text. Easy smash delete button out of your life. Some people only know how to sink and want other to sink with them. You did your best. I had couple of those people from childhood I had to cut loose as well. Hopefully he gets his shit together one day..........
Jones · 105w
Even w ur episode w bitcoin, that friend is still among those bad people. Bad people do bad things, good people do good things. Bad people produce bad things, good people produce good things. All u can do is to move forward and learn. youtube.com/watch?v=M1Yf2BA4sO0&t=21 <=== this one is a good "...
jgbtc · 105w
That's scary. Imagine when Bitcoin is at $500k. This guy will definitely come looking for you. We all need to start thinking more adversarily and that means no more orange pilling, or at least being very selective about it.
(Deleted Account) · 105w
Weirdge reason to not want to promote sound money. This story sounds like it's less about Bitcoin and more to do with mental health.
Diyana · 105w
I really wish some people frossing path with me oranged pilled me in 2014-15/when they were stacking sats. instead here I am fiat poor trying to learn how to get off exchanges and p2p btc at 65k before the halving, feeling fomo but hopeful for my grandkids one day. lol 😅 Something similar haooen...
Men ☕ · 105w
Some boys never become a man, even if they pass 30.
E · 105w
I was reading “Wanting” by Luke Burgis last night, recommended by nostr:npub18678fyrar7fg7gy77ggwsuk2cqe74ull38ng2v5x63werc63a70qw02kgq . The passage in the clip below reminded me of your “friend”. Like he had some form of mimesis/ mimetic desire towards you, and his dick move with your miss...
𝕾𝖊𝖗 𝕾𝖑𝖊𝖊𝖕𝖞 · 105w
Holy shiit 🤦‍♂️ I’m ngl I’m seeing some of what you’re saying with the insecurity and tension, even some animosity from a close fren that I half way orange pilled n has been getting burned with shitcoins n blames it on me for not getting into shitcoins as well to help him, I had a c...
Orange Crush · 104w
Better buy that mofo some Tictacs so you hear him coming.