For me, it was verify, don’t trust.
I grew up being told that Christianity was the truth, and had a difficult time trying to find ways to squeeze objective truths (dinosaurs, the age of the Earth, ...
"try to let go of the religious guilt that you are saddling yourself with." is this about you? Is it directed at me? I ask because I didn't directly mention religious guilt in my post but quite a lot of it was installed in the back of my head when I was young and I'm still trying to remove it. I'm curious if that came through in my post.
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