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HannahMR
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Pretty much just my shower thoughts 🚿🧠 But I do other things like... Developer Advocate at Lightning Labs | Organizer of San Juan Bitdevs | Founder of Velas Commerce

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Guilt is an individual thing and not a group project. It is incorrect and very counter productive to try to give the weight of guilt to someone who shares some group identity with a guilty party. And I refuse to carry the weight of any guilt that does not personally belong to me.

And also, the world will place these things on you and others. You will be handed the benefits or burdens of other people’s crimes. And I have very little respect for those who can not see that, for those who are blind to the benefits and burdens that they and others have been handed.
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We all know that being loved feels great, but also, loving someone is really good for you. Just looking at a picture of someone you love increases oxytocin, dopamine, serotonin, and reduces cortisol.

So go give someone a hug today 🫶
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...or just stare creepily at a photo of them 🤪
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Life isn’t about stuff, it’s about character development.

The goal isn’t to accumulate more cars, more job titles, more Twitter followers. The goal is to make an amazing story.

The things are mostly circumstantial. If a certain character were dropped into midevil Europe or modern day Dubai, the things would be very different, but the character would be the same, and the story could be amazing in both timelines.

...ya get what I mean?
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“Traditional values” and “Family values” are most of the time just a quiet way to say “I want the return of patriarchy”.

When I hear a man say that he wants a return to "traditional values" what I hear is... "I have a hierarchical mindset. I don't know how to value myself unless I can think of myself as above others. I need to be above women so that I can have a sense of value."
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"The strength of a relationship is in the repair." – Terry Real

All relationships will have "ruptures". That's just the nature of this life, we are limited creatures with imperfect data, we will step on each others toes. And so all relationships of any variety require repair. 

If a difficult conversation about "hey you stepped on my toe" can not be had, then that is a very weak relationship. And really strong relationships are not ones where no ones toes are stepped on, but one's where toe stepping can be discussed and resolved.
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I don't think I follow. But I would say that healthy sexuality generally does not include tying people up or slapping them around.

choking is interesting as when done correctly it actually produces a high. It's dangerous, but I think some people like to be choked just for the high.

But there is also a wide variation among humans. Not commonly but sometimes people just have pain and pleasure circuits that overlap, so that pain can be arousing.

It's complex. But I think if you could interview people who play BDSM "sub" in the bedroom, you'd find that nearly all of them have horrific back stories.
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Some people wish to use Bitcoin as a means of flatting power structures.

Some people wish to use Bitcoin as a means of accumulating power.

Which are you?
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