If you put in no effort to at least trying to find structure then you will have none.
I intentionally test on Damus as it is high traffic. My personal relays are working fine and I respond to people'...
Nah Email fixed all of these decades ago. Signal/Matrix too gives you perfectly reliable delivery reports. The problem here is that we treat direct conversations as something that should be publicly observable, of course nothing gets observed, so we don't get reliability of Email, nor we get the mythical impossible censorship resistance Reach.
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