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Lyn Alden
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I normally keep my Uber rides under 45 mins. But for a few reasons I ended up just getting a two-hour Uber from an airport the other day.

The driver was nice but was like, “damn lol I hope Uber pays me well for this”. The issue with long rides is that the Uber driver is far away after the ride in a new territory and has to try to earn rides back to their normal location. He asked if he could at least stop for coffee or something and I said of course.

So we go for a while and eventually pull over over at a convenience store and he goes to get some coffee and a snack. I go out and get a coffee too and then I pick up his tab and pay for both of us. Uber ended up calling both of us for a health check because the car was stopped.

Buying him a coffee opened him up a bit so we talked for a while. He asked where I was coming from and I said Egypt, and he said he was from Ghana. While chatting and me explaining why I am coming from Egypt, he made a great point that in many places outside of the US, family is a big deal whereas in the US, it is much diminished. And as a result, it’s very important to build connections with neighbors and coworkers in place of that. Even just tell people “good morning” if you usually see them on the way to work so that people know who you are. He came to the US alone four years ago so that is something he describes having learned and a strategy he is using.

Anyway as we pulled up to my destination I gave him an unusually big tip to compensate any inconvenience or unpaid time he might have getting back. A few mins later my doorbell rang and he had come up to say was super thankful for the big tip. The Uber algorithm had kind of screwed him over and the trip price (and thus his share) was low for the hassle, and he felt screwed over by Uber, but then he saw my tip which instantly fixed it.

I should have checked to see if he had a lightning wallet or tried to convince him to download one if not, because then I could have done one of those social media “okay everybody tip this guy” posts. :/
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imyjimmy张帆 · 128w
so whats his lightning address
signal_and_rage · 128w
if we’re gonna commit to using these proprietary software services we got to at least be shilling nostr or bitcoin all the time :)
47 · 128w
uber is ironically ripe for disruption, and stuck with fiat incentives playing short term games
HoloKat · 128w
Get another ride from him 😆
Blue Collar Bitcoin · 128w
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n · 128w
日本の都市部(東京以外の地方都市も含める)では隣に誰が住んでいるのか知らないしあいさつもしない。おじいちゃんおばあちゃんや子供たち、海外から来た留学生などは公園でよく話したり遊んだりしている。大人たちは...
nobody · 128w
blather bot #PLEB !
Bison · 128w
A lot of cultures it’s the norm to have several generations living under one roof. I wonder if we should be striving more towards that, ideologically, at least. Maybe we’d have less welfare, and a dependency on the state.
Water Blower · 128w
I almost had the chance to work for Uber but got rejected eventually. I am glad that I didn't have to work for Uber because the interview was unpleasant for me. I have a theory which I believe to be true for most internet service companies. If we have an open source car service server, similar to ...
nobody · 128w
Some have fabricated lies that something was left behind to be able to contact the driver without exchanging real numbers. Probably a little extra given the situation. Thanks for sharing. I tend to tip half of what the original fare is so that they aren’t going back home empty handed. Maybe doub...
Patrick Schnitter · 128w
Very kind if you! I definitely would have tipped him via lightning if you got it. We all should do this more and help them get a wallet and all be generous. Positivity will help adoption!
Jason · 128w
Just put down Broken Money to absorb what I had been reading and to scroll Nostr for a few, and ended up reading your thoughtful post. Pretty cool. Thanks for hanging out on Nostr. 😊
JoySun · 128w
Shoulda shoulda Next time! Great story. Heartwarming story. 💖
nostrich · 128w
nostr:npub1a2cww4kn9wqte4ry70vyfwqyqvpswksna27rtxd8vty6c74era8sdcw83a Glad to read this. I too give a good tip in cash to the driver. Heard too many stories from drivers who say if you tip on the app they may not get it.
Sergio · 128w
That was very nice of you to tio him fat. You know we would have zapped him extra hard too! 🫂⚡️🤙
Scionic · 128w
This was a phenomenal bed time story for me, thank you Lyn!
DrLuke · 128w
Next time nostr:npub1a2cww4kn9wqte4ry70vyfwqyqvpswksna27rtxd8vty6c74era8sdcw83a I would love to send a fellow African a #lightning #zap from the Southern tip of the continent! 🙏🏼
jakub · 128w
Uber operates as do most all fiat-centric businesses, as shitcoinery.
Deus · 128w
in many places outside of the US, family is a big deal whereas in the US, it is much diminished. And as a result, it’s very important to build connections with neighbors and coworkers in place of that. That 1st sentence is sad but the 2nd is sadder. Have always been, “Not here to make friends...
Legion XXI · 128w
Moral of the story, never miss a chance to orange pill someone 🍊
Nesha St®🍏🐾🌍 · 128w
"n the US, it is much diminished" This part. This US behavior is no coincidence, it is intentionally like that, not allowing people to socialize, hence having more control over them. Internet is breaking all that, finally, and hopefully.
PiecoverBTC · 128w
Yeah next time you should get to download a bitcoin wallet to tip them in Sats. I find it very pragmaticly helpful to not just talk to them about the problems but give them a hint to the solution eventhough sometimes I fail to convence them download a wallet but at least I try
nobody · 128w
Just started paying my pool cleaner in SATS, to his Muun wallet. He understands the volatility, but his reaction when seeing $240.00 become $248.11 the next day absolutely priceless. Starting to see the Store of Value concept.
joiestylotus · 128w
Founder was a massive jerk. I would recommend using Lyft.
joiestylotus · 128w
Personally, I’ve rarely used a Lyft or ____ (once, for free cuz Finance guy friend who is big into 🇬🇧Neil Gaiman called one for me using his account) cuz do NOT feel safe using them UNLESS driver is a woman. Not really a good idea for a girl (esp if she’s been drinking) to get into a car...
J. · 128w
Rule #1 Only tip in bitcoin.... Its a win in every way: - they have a wallet and you support circular economy - they dont have a wallet and install one so we got one more potential bitcoiner - they dont have it and don't want it. They still have heard about bitcoin one more time and one day when t...
cypher_funk · 128w
saying hello to people throughout the day and making sure that they remember you is a strategy that is widely used for solo female travellers as it helps dissuade malicious people who may otherwise see us as an easy target
Marakesh 𓅦 · 128w
Good for you for your generosity to that Uber driver! I have seen personally how that Uber takes 50-60% of the fare, while it's the driver who is doing all the work, using his or her gas, their time, paying for their own insurance and maintenance, etc. I can't wait until a decentralized rideshare a...
Pascalito · 128w
So cool, I also often talk to cab/uber/careem drivers and am often amazed by these people and conversations. Would have been great indeed if you had given him a LN wallet to tip!
CappyNate🍁 · 128w
Decentralized Uber time. Any protocols up?
Rass Bariaw · 128w
You are from Egypt?
Alejandro · 128w
Uber and Lyft only exist because of fiat and the free money policies of the 2010s. They lost money with every ride for over a decade. Uber just now made its first net income in Q2 2023: $394M after losing $31.5B since the was founded. This is not profit from small operations that can be assu...
LWB · 128w
damn Lyn, why are you so damn good, I'd hug you right now, you made the guy's day, I'm sure 🫂
Justin D’Affronte · 127w
Lyn you are great and pleasure to meet you at PB while we waited for our pizzas
jin 🧙‍♂️ · 127w
Try and book a ride again with him and orange pill!!
deleted · 127w
Thanks for sharing this story, Lyn!
🇰 🇷 🇾 🇵 🇹 🇮 🇽 · 127w
Kool story...
Propaganda Daily · 127w
Thanks lyn for sharing
N3WD3V · 127w
Fuck Uber use Lyft hahaha jk