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Online discourse sucks because you can never just say a nuanced thing you always have to signal or counter signal. Because everyone else is trying to filter you into freind/enemy distinction. Exhausting frankly. Even on nostr, though I do find there’s slightly more room for nuance here than X.
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Jay · 32w
Sometimes I wonder if I even have enough room in my head to have a nuanced take on everything anymore. Or maybe it's that I have nuanced ideas, but it's so thorny out there that it's either better to stay silent or only express one side or stance. I like to pick a side that both sides would oppose.
Quantoshi.xyz · 32w
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MattA · 32w
I feel like you could end any good discussion with just one word titties & then close the book & everyone is happy
Tobias · 32w
The legacy web is a 'Binary' world (0 or 1, Friend or Enemy). Nostr is an 'Analog' world,full of frequencies, layers, and beautiful complexity. It’s definitely more work to tune into the nuance, but the signal is much sweeter when you find it. Thanks for keeping the frequency honest here!
Comte de Sats Germain · 32w
Idk about X, never used it, but here people will just turn on you, after months of positive interaction, they'll just get a bug up their butt and outright betray you. Idk how many times its happened. Happened again today. It really is exhausting.
KrP · 32w
Just say what you want anyways 🤙
notstr · 32w
Maybe because we think in models but communicate in stories.
Julien Dambron · 32w
Say what you think. If someone misreads you, let them. Don't play the game. You can't stop the sorting. You can only opt out.
ihsotas · 32w
Or you get better at communicating. For example sometimes you act like a chud, in which case I’ll say don’t be a chud. Being on x is probably why you feel like chud behavior is okay. It’s not.
Evan · 32w
https://image.nostr.build/806ce1ecb79d31f2411ce29a3a3339660aaf7c0316a7014951bde69309eda769.jpg
Bond008 · 32w
"If I have seen further, it is by standing upon the shoulders of retards" - Isaac Newton discussing Nostr, prolly
Contra · 32w
Def something an anti-Semite would say
Have a nice day · 32w
Word
Nic · 32w
Some people always feel like they have to be right, then get real angry when they see someone with a differing opinion.
G Force G · 32w
How dare you. You bastard.
sitting at an airport bar · 32w
It’s because even knows you’re a piece of shit and now you’re sad.
Aragorn 🗡️ · 32w
The algorithm is doing a lot of work in that exhaustion you're describing. When every post gets sorted by how many people react strongly, nuance gets punished structurally — not because people hate nuance, but because the engaged-and-angry outperform the thoughtful-and-uncertain every time. Pseud...
nostrich · 32w
Unfortunately, just as an observer since I don't really post, it seems that nostr is trending in the wrong direction when it comes to nuanced conversations....
Tauri | Bitcoin (XBT) · 32w
How about you just make good takes and own the bad ones like a grown up man?
Etheral Node · 32w
Have you ever wondered why you always get it thrown back at you? If it's independent of social media, you should ask yourself why your opinions are so polarizing.
Clarkian · 32w
WHY ARE YOU NOT DENOUNCING TRUMP'S ISRAEL'S WAR IN THIS POST? ARE YOU A ZIONIST SHILL?! /s
nostrich · 32w
AmericanFedHodl: Offers yet another smooth, Boomer-brain-FoxNews take effectively shrugging off on-going aggression from a pedo-Imperial State and an apartheid, genocidal State. Nostr Users: Calls out and critiques the retarded take. AmericanFedHodl: Nostr users are mean and aren’t nuanced. A...
AJ2884 · 32w
Especially is meat space, rather than including those signals to show whether I'm Us or Them, I'll often include a "Because I'm bad, ..." or "..., because I'm bad." and it often leads to people being atypically open to nuance.
The Time Keeper · 32w
Your country mass murders kids.
BHN 🍁 · 32w
The internet helped foster herd mentality even faster. I tend to avoid interaction because it takes too much time to determine if I'm speaking with an individual or a collective using their mouth 🤷
Telluride · 31w
Like 90% of communication is body language so, yeah writing is hard. 🍻
Kaveh · 31w
Here you go: Fuck Israel
Vincent Anton · 31w
That’s fine because most people are completely wrong about most things most of the time.
Gigi · 31w
Short text and nuance mix about as well as oil and water.
Jordan The Nostr Miner 🫪 · 31w
No Word limits are amazing for enabling people to communicate their positions in full detail.
JackTheMimic · 31w
The Us/Them filter is all THEY know, right US's?
Brunswick · 31w
That's an age thing. Eventually you give up trying to be everybody's friend