Bill Cypher on nostr

The Man in the Car paradox teaches us that we mostly think about ourselves 😅 https://video.nostr.build/ecfc052026a06c3da7d6101c0b990abfcd343010def01f0cebd3e9ce555cc5f1.mp4

Bill Cypher @Bill Cypher 1779814238

Look from another angle and you'll see that this also shows the slightest effort to stop performing and pay attention to others will put you miles ahead of the crowd.

We've all had that moment after where we KNOW no one actually saw or gave a shit about the performance we were so proud of. Remember the time 1 person noticed? What did that do to your perception of the person who noticed?

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Bill Cypher · 1w

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purrs_for_Her · 1w

essentially seeing through your own ego and into the world (or into another) however, we're built to perform. we perform for our parents. we perform for school. we perform for our friends. we perform for our work. we perform for society. and we're constantly calculating and hiding and expressing a...

purrs_for_Her · 1w

i will add that practicing (and it is a practice) in making that effort to stop performing has made me a much better husband and lover.

Primal Protocol · 1w

Less focus on external validation, more on inner drive, mirrors our ancestral instincts.