@Bill Cypher
Relays (5)
- wss://nostr.wine/ – read & write
- wss://nostr.land/ – read & write
- wss://hist.nostr.land/ – write
- wss://relay.damus.io/ – read
- wss://nos.lol/ – read
Recent Notes
That all makes sense and it has helped me to be less angry when I try to understand the other’s reasoning. But I also think that avoiding certain people is a good idea too.
Some people make it easier than others for sure.
I never found any common anger management practice that worked.
It is just a matter of catching yourself in the moment and reflecting on if that anger served you or hurt you. Bad news is you will need to repeat the process many times over potentially years depending on how engrained the pattern of jumping to anger is.
Another angle that helped for me was putting a ton of effort into seeing the other person's perspective and frame. That is necessary to treating the disagreement as a puzzle to be solved instead of a battle to be won.
It is just a matter of catching yourself in the moment and reflecting on if that anger served you or hurt you. Bad news is you will need to repeat the process many times over potentially years depending on how engrained the pattern of jumping to anger is.
Another angle that helped for me was putting a ton of effort into seeing the other person's perspective and frame. That is necessary to treating the disagreement as a puzzle to be solved instead of a battle to be won.
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The small ones I mow over. the big ones I cut up for fire wood.
We don't go through much firewood here. I was thinking hugelkultur for the stuff that is too big for the chipper.
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If you want to change, you have to change.
It seems so obvious but so many people go through life completely unable to connect those dots.
I'm thinking like "I want to be in better shape but I don't want to be one of those people who work out all the time." Sorry, that's just not how it works. The results you want will only come from changing your daily habits to align with your goals.
It seems so obvious but so many people go through life completely unable to connect those dots.
I'm thinking like "I want to be in better shape but I don't want to be one of those people who work out all the time." Sorry, that's just not how it works. The results you want will only come from changing your daily habits to align with your goals.
#permaculture people of nostr, what are you doing with deadfall and pruned branches? I'm thinking about getting a chipper shredder to make it into mulch.
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Almost anything you can do on a raspberry pi you can do better on an LXC or with Docker.
"Promo code in the description" doesn't line the influencers pockets if they tell you to run free software on hardware you already own.
This is why pihole gets more press than the superior technitium. I imagine it happens with many other subjects too.
"Promo code in the description" doesn't line the influencers pockets if they tell you to run free software on hardware you already own.
This is why pihole gets more press than the superior technitium. I imagine it happens with many other subjects too.
#fitstr completed for the day. BJJ, deadbugs, and stretches. Next stop protein. Then rest, or at least physical rest.
Wisp with nwc has been working well for me.
Better than Amethyst was recently. Part of the motivation for my migration.
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