Woke up, tried to fix my relays. I thought eden was the paid Nostr land relay. Not finding eden at all so I guess I should remove. Paid invoice for Nostr land subscription. Now I'm out 60k Satoshis and still no access to that relay.

I'm just venting to the 3 of you who will see this. I can't even keep myself up and running on Nostr.

I love the idea of onboarding new people to Nostr. I have put in a lot of work to make something, there's a lot of people interested in my group already... But then my relays went wonky (AGAIN) and it's such a fucking headache just fixing these things for myself. I shudder to think how constant this fuckery would be for the people in my community group if I onboard them.

Anyways, any relay recommendations?

I used to have a ton of relays set up because when I first started I noticed they went down a lot and I figured better to have backups. But I winnowed it down to just high quality relays which was good for a few months. But now I'm going back to maybe if I had 20 relays set up I wouldn't have this problem where 5/6 relays aren't populating my feed 🙄