Stop telling me to self-host. relay.nostr.net

Start doing it

"Have you tried self-hosting?" is the new "Have you tried turning it off and on again?" 🙄

I've self-hosted Nextcloud for years, and I can say it's been a massive pain in my ass. I lose a piece of my soul every time I update

I self host a few things and it is nice. But simple things on general. I want to expand it, but i am not going to support teams or something as you say

No. But I don't push that hard since I, myself, don't yet. 😅

It isn't self-hosting that is the problem. It is the setup and network layer. Do you have complaints about self-hosting solitaire or minesweeper? Of course not! They install without configuration and just work. I'd counter with give me a protocol that doesn't require configuration of any apps that...