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I don't like conflict over "trivial" things so it is almost always easier to give in on pretty much anything that doesn't have a certain amount of emotional significance.

Some of it is trying to be a "good person" by letting other people have what they want, but a significant chunk of it is simply the pragmatism of a child from a large family who learned that being "flexible" was often more pleasant than actually getting into conflict, even when it means not getting what you want.
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Artemis · 6w
It seems good & I think it sometimes *is* good. The *ability* to let go & go with the flow is extremely useful. Sometimes you have to make someone else happy so that they don't make your life miserable. In those circumstances it's just what you have to do. Or sometimes maybe someone is fragile & n...