Your religious views make you a backwards person who wants to force roles on people. This entire way of thinking just makes it sound you can't handle the idea of people having any actual choice. You seem unable to deal with the realities of life. Like, you're mad about hearing about the natural processes women go through? You can't handle a women who isn't "elegant" or even has her own opinions at all? Does any of this actually sound noble to you?

You should try figuring out how your religion can lead you to being a better person instead of using it to justify this weak bullshit.