Ok, I worded the first sentence in a confusing way:

“Honestly, I’m not sure I want Nostr or relays to keep all my notes and media forever.”

I didn’t mean that I don’t want relays to store my events forever. I meant that I don’t really care if relays go down and my old notes disappear, or if relays occasionally clear out old data to free up space. I wanted to say, I’m not particularly interested in measures to preserve my events for as long as possible.

I didn’t mean, as some people here are putting words in my mouth, that I want to force relay operators to delete my events.