https://media1.tenor.com/m/nxmNZ1zW6osAAAAC/angry-to-happy-primal.gif

Its not as if primal users mis out on a whole bunch of posts and that they sort of force you to add their relay to your list if you want to ensure primal users can actually see your stuff....oh wait

in case anyone only sees the quoted post and misses the nuance, the choice is the user's for both the client and relay. there is no lock-in.