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Celata · 158w
I'm guessing that you have not recently been told that you are a literal Nazi and a hateful person who needs to die in a fire and be banned from society because you happen to be sexually attracted to ...
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you're right, I haven't been called Nazi recently.
but every day I see on the Internet people I don't even know telling that people like me are monsters, telling us we're not what we tell we are ; all this even though I never recognized myself in the identity I've been given at birth, even though I hate myself because I don't look like I'd like to be, and because even if I'd be happy with my appearance, other random people could just tell I'm a monster to shatter all this light confidence I managed to build to try to be happy.
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ΛJΛXX / Sam · 158w
fortunately I'm not criticized for what I say unfortunately I'm criticized for who I am
Celata · 158w
I am not telling you that you are a monster. Not liking yourself as you are is something that you can work on, and more positively than pretending to be something that you are not. Through counselling or through #stoicism you can learn to come to terms with yourself. This is the healthy outcome. Cr...
ΛJΛXX / Sam · 158w
And please stop using sex and gender as if these 2 terms meant the same thing. WE KNOW we'll never be biological women, but gender is a social construct ffs
ΛJΛXX / Sam · 158w
I tried stoicism, it's a wonderful philosophy which helped me so much in my life. But it didn't help me accept who I'm told I am. I never found myself in the ♂ gender. I tried and tried so hard to fit in it, so hard I hated myself to not being able to "just" be what everyone want me to be. Stoici...
ΛJΛXX / Sam · 158w
But when I learnt more about the transidentity, I found a way to reappropriate my physical self, to finally feel at home in my own body. Feeling these colorful emotions after all these years filled with gray tints of "it is what it is, I'll never be happy with myself" is just a relieve, it give hop...
ΛJΛXX / Sam · 158w
Of course I can wear dresses if I want, but I really feel like I would better explore my feminity and masculinity if I had a feminine body to start.