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All of these arguments don't represent what trans community thinks about all this. Trans community (as all of the LGBTI+ community) supports lesbians, the community just doesn't stand transphobic ppl.

I understand your focus on trans genitals, but is it a reason to start a crusade against the entirety of the trans community ?

1. Again, I don't support this kind of violence. Plus because of a transgender woman being violent, does it mean all of trans folks are violent as well ? I don't really get the point here.

2. Presence of trans folks in sports is a tricky subject I don't really know much about, I don't really want to engage on this. But there's some studies saying the gap between trans & cis women isn't really clear : https://www.bbc.com/sport/61346517

3. Children are NEVER forced to transition, and nobody except oneself is able to know and say they're trans. Surgical transition isn't authorized on minors (or it shouldn't). The advice of the child should always be asked.

4. Nobody forced anyone to date transgender women. These bans are against transphobes who don't even respect trans folks.

This is the important part of my point : we don't force anything to anybody, we just want to be able to express ourselves freely. It doesn't change anything for anybody else, so why is it so much important?

That's entirely the point : gender is a social construct, it's just a part of a person's identity, allowing it to be what we want.
If you want to keep your gender aligned to your sex, it's fine. If you want your gender to be something else, it's fine too. People choosing their gender doesn't affect your life, so why do you care?

Sex (or genitals) is indeed a biological reality, but its only importance is for when you want to have kids, else we don't give a damn about what's in people's pants.

I don't think about stereotypes at all.
I just see gender as a spectrum so wide that allow anyone to be how they feel on this spectrum, it's a whole diversity

Of course I can wear dresses if I want, but I really feel like I would better explore my feminity and masculinity if I had a feminine body to start.

But when I learnt more about the transidentity, I found a way to reappropriate my physical self, to finally feel at home in my own body.

Feeling these colorful emotions after all these years filled with gray tints of "it is what it is, I'll never be happy with myself" is just a relieve, it give hope, it gives joy and let us hope for happiness.

Please don't take us that. We're just trying to be happy after hating ourselves our entire life.

I tried stoicism, it's a wonderful philosophy which helped me so much in my life.

But it didn't help me accept who I'm told I am. I never found myself in the ♂ gender. I tried and tried so hard to fit in it, so hard I hated myself to not being able to "just" be what everyone want me to be.
Stoicism helped me on that only by letting me think for years that "it is what it is" and that the only solution I had was to barely tolerate the individual I am, to just be this default human an just exist in my head.

no physical violence maybe, but the psychological violence impact is so huge and hurtful to us